Improved coping not moping

I’m resting right now cos I feel pretty tired and I found that scheduler thingy on WordPress that will help a bit so I can work a bit at a time on posts rather than slaving over the machine for a hour or so nonstop.

The great new is my BFF is back cos we actually need each other to get through the trials and tribulations of life, finding differing ways of doing things and yes we both have our butts blast when we mess up badly without a good reason. Actually a few mess ups aside were doing better for having assistance and enforced consequences  like a very sore bottom in our lives than we have for like eons.

I’ve actually got mapped and written out a whole batch of blog posts plus tidied up one blog on top of regular stuff so when I have these rougher days I cope with it better plus I am learning to try and do something  to help out even if it is less than usual so I don’t just just lie down issuing directives, waiting on people.

Learning to handle this is super important to me.


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Tidying up and stuff

At chez Jo’s I’ve been a bit busy sorting out my dvd collection, perhaps like you I have some – typical box sets – that I’ve only ever watched once in seven years and when I’m honest with myself most likely won’t be picked up again apart from dusting once in a blue moon. Blows nose from dust off of them!

The other side of that is of course while some of us can no doubt recall that formats predecessor, the VHS tape was typically much wider and bulkier, it doesn’t take many dvds to get toward a big pile that just can’t continue skyward so it creates more space for the ones I do really want.

That part of life is something I’m pretty bad at mainly cos I’m very bad at getting started and if something prevents me from finishing it in one go it stays in it’s less organized state.

I have being doing better this week when it comes to not using the computer in the early hours of the morning and keeping a clear cut of point between getting ready for bed and shutting down the computer so my mind is switched off.


To be honest with me it needs something like a very painful consequences to do me some good in shifting those attitudes; what is bad IS good for me because when this happens things change for the better. I’m just happy people do it now.

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Ouchie week report

Oh Hi there. Yes we are running a bit late this week as I have been feeling a bit off since Friday and totally overlooked posting yesterday and indeed this monetizing embedded thing  put me off as I could think how to get shut of it to point I might of decided to scrap using WordPress altogether.

Anyway this week I’ve been tidying up some duplicates and never played in like nine years cds cos I have a lot from a period in my life where I was more easily influenced by others about what to do and buy so I’d just buy things cos someone would you say “You really need this edition or that bands entire catalog, Jo” and like -Pow! out goes money from the account and another ten discs enter a growing pile!!!

That was the thing, I had so little belief in me I’d just follow and act on what they said without really thinking so long as it got me company and answered my wantings even if it did nothing for my needs


I did make a mistake yesterday getting up at 3 AM to use the computer an you know how it is when you try so hard to not make a sound but between your fingers and it’s built in cooling fan it’s hard over a dead silent background it’s noticed so I had my knickers taken down and bare bottom paddled. I just had these ideas I was desperate to post so I broke the rule rather than scribbling them down and going back to sleep.

This week I’m planning on doing some reading of a series of books I bough earlier on in the year.  Bye for now.

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Planning and achieving

Another Saturday sat by the keyboard paws at the ready as I type up a kind of spontaneous post on what has been a pleasant sunny afternoon here recovering from a migraine yesterday  that put most things on a hold.

Mine are what you call classical with the aura and tend to last typically three days where everything is super sensitive  to the slightest sound or flickering light for days after and it’s not uncommon for me to have involuntary spasm down the left side of my face.

Earlier on the week I was a bit busy tidying around the shelves my stereo lives being old-fashioned enough to have a complete set of separates rather than either an all in one system or play everything from a computer.

I needed to get to the connectors of the original compact disc player to unplug it and remove ready for a newer more expensive model as the rest of system is capable of a more higher standard of reproduction and many of recordings I have and enjoy are so well recorded would be a pity not to take advantage of all they have to offer.

Where this ties in with this is blog is I carefully considered how to tackle the physical side of it to minimize the inevitable pains involved in doing it when your paws are like mine, breaking it down to chunks doing a bit at a time and I managed to get it done fairly straightforwardly.

Learning to think through tasks to make things better for me has been one the things I have been learning to do over the last few years and it seems to coming together now.

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Reflections from Summer Camp

It’s Saturday afternoon here the week after we had no posts cos as I mentioned the previous week I was going to be away on a kind of vacation but one designed very much for people like me so that’s why there’s a post gap and if there is a post scheduler in WordPress I sure haven’t mastered it in the I have on Googles blogger.

Anyway on my main LG blog – details on the ‘about’ page on this blog – on Monday there will be a blog entry covering what I and my friends did during this period when it comes to the activities cos in some respects it’s like Summer Camp but for legal adults with very child-like personalities which as we all know is me like totally. I mean who else could just get super excited by bubble wands running around in circles???


Or even something like a sports  day even if you’re lousy with balance and co-ordination cos you just like the dashing about and taking part?

When it comes to some of my not so good attributes that lead to the publishing of this kind of a blog following my arrival at SN actually I was pretty good, not perfect so yes I get a few brisk hand spankings for not paying proper attention to what the person who looks after me said I didn’t need to be caned both of which I’m glad about  cos for me this really is a need, never a fetish or a scene thing and my bottom needs spanking so my attitudes change their tune.

For me though this is progress however because I did more things everybody else is expected to do without having to be told to, I did exercise more maturity than I have for most of my life within what I AM capable of and of doing what I AM physical capable of. I even got an special badge for being extra helpful!


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Vacationing little


There won’t be a post next week on account of it being what for all intents and periods amounts to a kind of a vacation for me albeit on where it’s share with friends that is very child-like with lots of play and yes I’ll actually be doing something for it!

That means of course I have to get myself organized such as arranging travel, sorting through clothes to wash and pack with me for six whole days, fetching the case down from by the loft and scheduling blog posts in my absence.

There is inevitably communication between the organizers and attendees like me but there’s also that between the person who looks after me too so one message I had was to say they’d packed spanking implements including the cane to use on me should my behaviour warrant it which isn’t the sort of conversation you’d get in any other context than that of littles and caregivers (or the wider spanking community).

That’s the whole thing here: It is very much a way of life that continues on no matter where we are including on day trips and vacations meeting my needs and giving them the space to show that love and care as a caregiver to me. Life couldn’t be sweeter.


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Random thoughts from last week


I did get away as those who read my other blogs will be aware although it was somewhat more last minute than I normally care for so I was rather busy packing apart from having a migraine in the middle of last week and being sick with gone off milk the day before.

That’s why we didn’t have an entry last weekend, I was so low on spoons I wasn’t able to make one Friday morning in an hour before setting out even. Anyway although it rained, we had a good time at a friends having an indoor picnic rather than the outdoor one we planned playing and chatting with each other.

As well I did mess up the Friday afternoon stopping with the person who looks after me so it was instant bend over and ten hard smacks over my knickers and all over and done with which is just how my life actually is rather than some bdsm based thing which is cool if that’s you.

My remade Tumblr is working out fine being more for age regressed me with the odd bit of discipline based spanking mixed in it reflecting just how this life is with me a very child-like life from my era focus having fun, enjoying cute things playing much more cos this life was never about ritual pain and humiliation in the way sadly some have just presumed on the basis that because they see spanking content, then what they get from is the same for me. That Tumblr is never less than 92% safe for work, is completely non-sexual and that includes the tiny portion of spanking only having ‘explicit’ on it to keep minors rightly away as well as anyone who may sensitive to ’18+ models posed in school context ‘ spanking images from proper adult services agencies.

Ta-rah for now and paws crosse they’ll be a post this weekend.

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